An Uncluttered Life

Lately, my life has been pretty hectic! Between promoting my book “Class with the Countess” in bookstores, on talk shows and in the media, shooting the Real Housewives of NYC Reunion show and taking care of my children, I haven’t had time to change my nail polish not to mention change out my winter clothing for spring, a task I usually accomplish by now. What does keep me sane during these extremely busy times is that I’m very organized and so is my closet. I can pull myself together for any type of event in fifteen minutes or less because I keep my clothing and accessory choices simple, classic and in good repair. By taking the time to organize your clothing and accessories, you will save a ton of time and money in the long run by utilizing what you already have.

Many people have reached out to me for fashion advice because they just can’t seem to pull it all together without getting stressed out. What I have done and suggest everyone do, is build a look around a core wardrobe of basic, high quality pieces that can be embellished with jewelry, scarves, and belts. You can never have too many accessories because they help define your personal style. I love cocktail rings and big-statement necklaces. Hair ornaments, especially silk or fresh flowers, are another personal favorite of mine in summer. Remember those huge sunglasses I wore last summer in the Hamptons? I felt like such a diva. Fashion is fun and it allows me to be creative and chic.

My father used to say to me “The simple life is the best life”. I took what he said to heart and now know that having too much too choose from can be confusing. I edit my closets each season with an eye to what can be worn now, what is worth holding onto and what items can be given away. Here are some of my wardrobe essentials:

1. A pair of great jeans – preferably dark.
2. A white long or three-quartered-sleeved tailored shirt – Cotton with spandex for a good fit is the most versatile choice.
3. A black dress – A sleeveless sheath is elegant. If you don’t have the upper arms or body for it, select a style with sleeves.
4. A blazer – A blazer is the perfect way to dress up jeans.
5. T-shirts – If you want to dress up your look, throw a staple jacket over a tee. Add a statement necklace or a scarf.
6. An everyday and an evening handbag – don’t drag out your everyday bag to dinner.
7. High heels, boots and ballet flats – There is no reason to attract too much attention to your feet. Comfort is key.

Tip: If you consider your basics a blank canvas, then your accessories are the paint. Keep your accessories well organized so you can look them over quickly to make your selection. Don’t forget your sunglasses!