Let Men Be Men
This week on the Real Housewives of New York City, I gave Bethenny advice on how important it is to be a bit of a damsel in distress at times. I think women are doing so much today career-wise and otherwise that they often forget that men like to feel needed. I know my opinion is controversial but I believe that there aren’t enough Betty Boops left in the world. Men love girls who like to have fun and who understand that femininity is essential to attraction.
It is possible to be a strong, accomplished woman in matters of business, yet be soft in affairs of the heart. Men respond positively to women who dress like women (a flirty skirt and high heels might do the trick). Men love when women speak softly, listen intently, and act flirtatiously. A date should not be treated like a business meeting – it is a chance to be engaging, sexy and whimsical. It is by being elegantly provocative that a woman communicates her interest to a man.
Tip: Here a few ways to turn up the heat during your next encounter with a man who intrigues you:
• The gaze – look into his eyes a few beats longer.
• Talk in a soft, low, provocative voice – you will both need to lean toward each other, drawing attention to your lips.
• Keep up the banter – being light and playful keep the energy high.
• Touch his arm lightly – only the briefest of touches and only above the belt unless you’re playing footsy!
• Show him you’re interested in him without giving him your business card. If he wants your number he’ll ask for it.
• Leave him wanting more.
It is possible to be a strong, accomplished woman in matters of business, yet be soft in affairs of the heart. Men respond positively to women who dress like women (a flirty skirt and high heels might do the trick). Men love when women speak softly, listen intently, and act flirtatiously. A date should not be treated like a business meeting – it is a chance to be engaging, sexy and whimsical. It is by being elegantly provocative that a woman communicates her interest to a man.
Tip: Here a few ways to turn up the heat during your next encounter with a man who intrigues you:
• The gaze – look into his eyes a few beats longer.
• Talk in a soft, low, provocative voice – you will both need to lean toward each other, drawing attention to your lips.
• Keep up the banter – being light and playful keep the energy high.
• Touch his arm lightly – only the briefest of touches and only above the belt unless you’re playing footsy!
• Show him you’re interested in him without giving him your business card. If he wants your number he’ll ask for it.
• Leave him wanting more.
posted by LuAnn deLesseps
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5:02 AM
1 Comments :
I very much agree with your point of view. I am an agressive business women but can still appreciate that men need to feel "needed". There is a time to 'grab the bull by the horns' but strong women need to temper this approach with an quiet and deliberate confidence that if you gently lead your stallion to the spring, he will most likely drink.
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